Donating to Youth Before the End of the Year
By Doug Abrams
Headlines and commentary report adult excesses in youth sports with unfortunate regularity, but sometimes a positive story stays with readers for its inspiration. The staying power may last for years.
In 2011, the Simcoe (Ontario, Canada) Reformer reported the death of Boston Bruins fan Ron Shepherd at 63. Readers likely expected nothing extraordinary from a story about the passing of a family man who had lived his life outside the public spotlight. But to share his love of hockey with the younger generation, the Shepherd family made a novel request. The family asked that each visitor to the funeral home bring a new hockey stick, and not flowers that would wilt at the curb awaiting trash collection within a week.
The family donated the 75 new sticks to the local youth hockey association for free distribution to players in the youngest age group. “My dad would be so happy to see the kids playing with the sticks,” said Shepherd’s daughter.
Human-interest stories like this one do more than simply highlight one person’s generosity that might otherwise go unnoticed. Individual generosity can also remind readers to consider making their own modest tax-deductible donations to worthy causes that help improve the lives of children. Because the tax year does not end until December 31, this timely reminder is the purpose of this column.
The Best Judges
Charitable impulses depend, of course, on personal financial circumstances and obligations to the family. Many adults receive more charitable solicitations than they can satisfy, and many adults must manage the family budget closely these days. But in and out of sports, adults seeking worthy causes that serve youth do not have far to look.
Their child’s youth sports association, or the local parks and recreation department, may accept donations toward fees or equipment for families that might otherwise be unable to keep pace with escalating costs of participation. Private local donations may also help bring state-of-the-art safety equipment such as automated external defibrillators.
National youth sports governing bodies typically maintain charitable initiatives devoted to equal opportunity and outreach to under-served youth. Because hockey is my sport, the USA Hockey Foundation, maintained by USA Hockey, comes to mind.
A parent or coach concerned about advancing player safety nationally may support leading organizations, such as the MomsTeam Institute of Youth Sports Safety.
Outside of sports, the parent or coach might have a favorite national, state, or local charity with a youth focus. For example, children’s hospitals serve sick and injured boys and girls from modest-income families, and typically accept donations not only for equipment and other direct medical needs, but also for amenities such as toys and games that make a young patient’s hospital stay more bearable.
A local hospital may serve as an indigent-care facility for families that cannot easily afford these amenities. When their child’s hospitalization happens suddenly, other families frequently overlook touches like toys and games, at least for a while as they adjust to the new family situation.
This list is meant to be illustrative, not exhaustive. Private philanthropy matters, and individual adults are the best judges of where their dollars can do the most good.
“But would my $25 donation really matter? Or would it simply be a drop in the bucket?”
“Every dollar makes a difference,” says former New York City Mayor Michael R. Bloomberg, “and that’s true whether it’s Warren Buffett’s remarkable $31 billion pledge to the [Bill and Melinda] Gates Foundation, or my late father’s $25 check to the NAACP.”
In his fable, The Lion and the Mouse, Aesop put it well more than two thousand years ago: “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”
Maya Angelou reminds us today that (as Ron Shepherd’s daughter experienced in Simcoe five years ago) donations serve both the recipient and the donor: “Among its other benefits, giving liberates the soul of the giver.”
Buckets that collect seemingly small acts of kindness can fill up quickly when thoughtful adults take the initiative and pitch in.
Sources: Barbara Simpson, Gift in Memory of Ron, Simcoe Reformer (Ontario, Canada), Apr. 18, 2011, p. 8; National Philanthropic Trust, Philanthropy Quotes, https://www.nptrust.org/history-of-giving/philanthropic-quotes/ (quoting Bloomberg and Angelou); Aesop, The Lion and the Mouse, Aesop’s Fables: A Classic Illustrated Edition, p. 38 (1990).